How To Know When He Wants Only Sex Not Love
Having sex with someone can sometimes be super fun as long as both of you are on the same page in terms of this being a sex-only relationship. Having no strings attached means you get your physical needs met without having any of the work (or risk) of a relationship.
Here are signs he only wants sex not love;
1.He’s Extremely Social and Surrounds Himself With Women
A man surrounded by beautiful women may not want a relationship.
The sexual stereotype that we’ve all been fed is that she wants commitment and he just wants sex with as many people as possible.
If a man is surrounded by women (lots of female friends, at parties with lots of women), he likely sees the abundance as a challenge to conquer. That’s not what you’re looking for.
Now, certainly, a man who is willing to commit and be in an actual relationship with you should leave behind at least some of the women he formerly was around.
2.Every Conversation Turns Sexual
Another of the signs he just wants sex is when every conversation seems to turn into something sexual for him. He’s incapable of having a text or talk that doesn’t end up that way.
3. He’s in a Stage in His Life Where He Doesn’t Want More than Sex
One of the signs he just wants sex? He’s out of the stage of wanting a commitment.
Consider where the man you’re dating…er, sleeping with…is in his life. If he’s between 26 and 33, he may have commitment and even marriage on the mind, but after that period, the chances he’ll marry begin to decline, and at that point, it’s likely he just wants sex.
If you really want to date a man with long-term potential, consider targeting men in this age bracket. Now, that’s certainly not to say that men this age always want a relationship, or that older men only want sex, but it’s something to consider if you’re seeing signs he just wants sex with every guy you’re with.
4. He Only Texts When He Wants to Hook Up
Stop and think about the last time this guy texted you first. First, what time of day was it? If he’s exhibiting signs he just wants sex, I’m willing to bet that he texted late at night.
Now, what did he text? Did he ask you about your day? Tell you about his? Share anything personal?
A man who can’t be bothered to hold a conversation with you via text (or even bother to call) and who only beckons you when he wants you is one that isn’t boyfriend material. And if you respond every time to his late-night text, you’re just giving him permission to continue this behavior.
The next time he texts looking to hook up, just ignore him. You deserve better.
5. It Feels Almost Too Good To Be True
He comes off all Prince Charming…but is he?
He’s doing all the right things. Texting you. Complimenting you. Making you feel like a sex goddess. You really don’t think he’s exhibiting any of these signs he just wants sex.
Sometimes when things seem too good to be true, they are. You’re living in a fantasy world with this guy. That works for the first few dates, but after a few weeks, you both should be letting your hair down a bit and being more your authentic selves.